Here’s What It Means If You Catch Your Man Watching Gay Porn

Here’s What It Means If You Catch Your Man Watching Gay

Essentially, finding your man watching gay porn doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s gay, bi, or going to leave you. Stay calm and consider exploring together what it is about gay porn that

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My guess, most likely, is that your husband acknowledges he’s got a hint of this, he’s turned on by the idea of gay sex, and he’s addressing this urge by visiting gay websites. You said that most of the porn he visits is straight, which suggests that, even in his porn habits, he’s mostly straight.

If it only happened a few times where he accidentally clicked the wrong link, i would believe he was telling the truth but obviously that hasn’t. It sounds very much is BI-sexual since he is looking at both types of porn. He just seems to be exploring his other side online. You should confront him by asking him if he also into men and that it is ok so he feels like you will understand him. That should make him feel more comfortable and maybe give you a straight answer. If he says no, then i’d throw the recent history of gay porn he’s been looking at and have him explain that. good luck!thanks raven, I don’t think I’m going to get an honest answer out of him which means showing him the evidence and then we’re into a confrontational situation which I really want to avoid if possible. I’d rather we could sit and discuss it calmly but sad to say I can’t see that happening. I’m going to have to do some serious thinking 🙁He may be curious or he may be experimenting with his sexuality. There are quite a few married men with a gay or bi streak in them, I’m afraid, and the real damage here comes if he’s actually acting on it. First off theres the infidelity part and secondly there’s the chance that he might pick up some disease from one of these guys if he is indeed trying to meet other men. But in order to even get into that discussion you need to talk with him and I would honeslty think at this point the only thing you can do is confront him with the evidence you have. I don’t really see how else you can proceed. It’s obviously bothering you, it’s something he seems to be hiding from you and unwilling or unable to admit to you or himself, and theres a real risk that if he acts on these desires he might catch something from one of them and then turn it over to you. It’s possible he hasn’t been acting on these desires of his, as you say you havent’ seen anything to make you think he has, but it’s also possible that he has in the past or will in the future. Especially if he thinks he can get away with it. I would pick a night when the two of you are home alone together and bring it up as calmly and logically as possible. Try not to get angry or upset and try to explain yourself and what you’re feeling as clearly and concisely as possible. He may be more open to a discussion about it if he doesn’t feel threatened or embarassed or angry. Yeah, it might be easier said than done but clearly you can’t just not do anything. And since he’s lying to you about it already I’d say your desire to know the truth about who he is and if he’s cheating on you takes precedence over his ego.I think most people (straight or gay) probably have a hint of the other in them – like they’re not 100% one thing, but maybe 80-95% one thing with a little of the other, and then there are those who are truly bi-sexual and are right in the middle. So for your husband to be curious about homosexual sex certainly does not make him wierd or unusual. Of course, the other variable is what anyone does about that streak, which could lie anywhere between ignoring it and suppressing it, acknowledging its existence but not following it at all, viewing porn, having affairs, leading a dual life, whatever. My guess, most likely, is that your husband acknowledges he’s got a hint of this, he’s turned on by the idea of gay sex, and he’s addressing this urge by visiting gay websites. You said that most of the porn he visits is straight, which suggests that, even in his porn habits, he’s mostly straight. Visiting these websites may be his way of accepting and addressing this urge in a way that doesn’t risk damaging your relationship and your marriage, because he’s not actually doing anything with anyone else. It gives him an outlet for it which is pretty much harmless. How you react to this, what you should do about it, I can’t really advise. You said that you’re open-minded about him looking at porn generally – can you find it within yourself to be open-minded about this too? That this is an outlet for him that minimises any harm to you and your marriage? Fair enough if this makes you deeply uncomfortable and you can’t accept it, that’s a perfectly reasonable response, plenty of wives/girlfriends cannot cope with their husband/boyfriend looking at porn at all. Whether you choose to discuss it with him, or keep quiet, only you can decide.I seriously wouldn’t worry too much. I am female and I get a buzz from lesbian porn. Not that I would do it in real life, it is just a fantasy. Many men have fantasies too. As sammy73 has summed up, people are curious by nature. I would personally be more worried if it was a porn site dedicated to children in porn. Now that is something that is not tolerable to me or 99.9% of the population! I suspect it is just curiosity of something ‘naughty’ that gets him going.Yeah it certainly COULD be just curiosity or a little bi streak he has going in him and I’d agree that if it stops at the porn then it’s just a more or less harmless outlet. The problem is there’s no way of knowing if that’s as far as it goes unless they can have an honest and open discussion about this without him denying it left and right. And of course there are inherent dangers and problems if he’s stepping outside the marriage with men or women. It could be just curiosity or it could just be more. I used to work the desk at a cheap motel and you’d be surprised (or maybe not) how many married men have mid-day encounters with other men. In the gay community married man are somewhat of a hot item.

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